If your idea of sexuality doesn't fit in the prescribed box that society dictates, what do you do? That was my dilemma, early in my sexuality. I fantasized about Pegging after reading an erotic story about it. But I labeled it bad, different, weird and strange. I was embarrassed about the intense desire I felt to explore it. So there was always a part of me that didn't get to play sexually the way I wanted to, even with my two husbands. While I may have mentioned that I wanted to explore Pegging, the moment they responded with reluctance or refusal (which they both did), I withdrew in shame. I had no confidence that what turned me on was perfectly okay, because it was outside of the box of sexual activities that society deemed acceptable. Decades passed. (How sad is that?) Finally, twice divorced and 50 years old, I thought, if not now...when? That is when PeggingParadise.com was born. That was when I shrugged off those societal constraints and started to explore my kinks with a purpose that came from realizing my time on this earth was limited. I also realized that my kinks were not bad, they were simply a part of who I was. As I explored these new areas of my sexuality, I got in touch with some dominant underpinnings and delved into BDSM. These days, I identify as a dominant sensual sadist. Becoming comfortable with those words took me a while; letting go of more shame! As a result, I understand the angst, confusion, and frustration of hiding your kinks under a layer of shame and embarrassment. I'm here to tell you that any consensual, safe kink is perfectly okay. Explore the desires that call to you, because in the world of kinks, what you resist, persists. I urge you: Don't wait as long as I did to explore what calls to you sexually. There is no one right way to do sex. You get to make your own rules. There are people in the world who are interested in the same (consensual and safe) kink(s) as you are, I guarantee you. In fact, they might be hiding in shame, too. Remember: Shame is the silent saboteur of sexual satisfaction. If Pegging calls to you, whether you are a giver or receiver, I have a wealth of information to share with you! Consider me your Pegging tour guide. After more than a decade of exploration, I have so much information and wisdom to share.